Crumbling is not an instant’s Act

Crumbling is not an instant’s Act
A fundamental pause
Dilapidation’s processes
Are organized Decays —
‘Tis first a Cobweb on the Soul
A Cuticle of Dust
A Borer in the Axis
An Elemental Rust —
Ruin is formal — Devil’s work
Consecutive and slow —
Fail in an instant, no man did
Slipping — is Crashe’s law —
                                                                                                             — Emily Dickinson


Imagine that you buy your young child a house. You plan to live there with them while they grow up, but ultimately, it’ll be all for them later. You take your child through the rooms, showing off all of the features. This is all for you son. This is all for you daughter. Look at that spare bedroom where you can work on your hobbies. The kitchen is great for entertaining. There’s plenty of yard space to run around. Maybe there’s a dog in your future. I’ll just be here with you for a while. It may seem like a long while, but I promise you, it’ll fly by and before you know it, you’ll have this place all to yourself. Isn’t it beautiful? Don’t you love it?

Imagine that child’s face lighting up with amazement. Imagine eyes filled with wonder and pride. Imagine your joy at seeing their joy.

Imagine a few months pass. The new paint smell is wearing off and you’re tired. You stop cleaning out the gutters; you’re leaving crumbs scattered about; you spill a drink and you leave it there; repairs need to be made, but you don’t really feel like it. Maybe later, you say. It’s not so bad, you say. It’s still livable, after all.

Imagine your child becoming increasingly worried. Imagine that everyday you complain about the leaky roof and the broken door hinge and the weeds in the garden. Or imagine that you never say a word about these issues at all. Either way, you do nothing about the pressing problems. Sure, you wipe down the countertops and sweep the floor, but there’s termites and you just can’t be bothered with that.

Imagine that it’s time for you to go. It’s your child’s place now. It’s a disaster. Naturally. It’s all his to fix. It’s up to her to repair everything. Sure, it wasn’t a new house when you moved in, but it was perfect– great bones, full of beauty, perfect location. Now it’s a burden and a cause of endless worrying. Your son, your daughter, loves this home but can’t understand why you’ve let this happen. Where did your pride go, he wonders.

He’s desperate now. Everything is falling apart. He fixes one thing and another thing falls apart. He asks friends for help, but they are busy; he keeps asking anyway because he can’t do it alone and it means something to him. Imagine that this once beautiful home becomes a burden to your child. Imagine that conditions have gotten so bad that they feel overwhelmed everyday. This home is your legacy and they want to keep it, maybe one day give it to their children. Imagine that they lay in bed at night staring at the ceiling thinking of solutions. They can’t understand why you didn’t do your part to care for this gift, this perfect home.

Imagine that this home is our planet. Realize that this home is earth. Are you the parent or the child?

Is there a pressing environmental issue that’s on your mind? Here’s your chance to bring some awareness and inspire others with your passion. Let’s here it!

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3 thoughts on “Crumbling is not an instant’s Act

  1. This was an impressive way to explain our impact (: I really enjoyed the read. I’m noticing over the years we’re having less springs and autumns and more like constant summers and winters- more of the extremes and less of the slight loveliness that is the former two seasons

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    1. Yes, Spring and Autumn are such gorgeous seasons. It’s funny how they are in neither extremes, but they seem so much more rich with variation. I wish we had more Autumn in Florida. I’m still trying to get to the north in the autumn months since I never have been. I’d love to experience fall in person, like changing colors Fall, not just the cool weather.

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